Communication is a valuable part of the life span of any relationship.
In a relationship there are four lines of communication that are available you.
Physically - the things we do.
Emotionally - the things we feel.
Mentally - the things we say.
Spiritually - the intangible connection, the part that just feels right.
Read about that here.
Opening doorways of communication.
As humans we are born searching for that connection, for the one, the person who will complete us, the person we are meant to journey through life with.
Due to circumstances and/or situations, there are millions of reasons why communication may fail in a relationship worry, stress, anxiety, embarrassment, shame, just to name a few.
These can all cause unexplained distances, emotionally, physically as well as a strong lack of communication.
Has your partner been:
- Distant
- Withdrawn
- Isolated
- Confused
Luckily there are a few thing you could try.
How to open doorways of communication:
1. Come from a non judgmental place.
Partners tend to be more open when they know they wont be judged.
2. Be open, get open.
The best way to get someone to open up, is to open up yourself, they will follow.
3. Don't pry.
Something given is sweeter than something taken, sometimes they just aren't ready.
4. No Ammo.
Allowing your partner to know that no matter what is said this information will not be used against them in the future.
Your partner reads your body language while they are opening up, so keep your facial expressions in a natural zone. A raised eyebrow can raise walls in a conversation.
6. No words
Text messaging is the worse, I repeat worse place to have a deep revealing conversation, not only can this bring more confusion, but you will loose a lot of the meaning of what is being said.
Coach Says:
Relationships are hard and keeping the lines of communications open can be hard on any modern day relationship. If you are having a hard time getting your lover/partner to open up, even with the above mentioned methods, then there is the possibility that there is something effecting lines of communication.
Laurie recommends : Relationship Assessment.
Whether this is a dull marriage or a heated love affair,
It all starts with you.
You have a life to live.
You have a destiny.
You have a choice.
This is not a quick fix, cure all.
This is you taking the step that will change your life,
This is you living the life you were meant to live.
This is you having the relationship you were meant to have.
Blessings, Laurie.
As a Intuitive Relationship Coach Laurie has been able to help people over come obstacles and personal set backs for over 25 years. Speak with her Via Chat or E-mail where you can request a Relationship Assesment. Bring more love, openness and honesty into your relationships. Follow
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